Morning Worship
Love
Refuses - Part One of Two
Introduction:
a. How does love behave itself?
b. Song – “How sweet how heavenly is the sight when those that love the
Lord”
3. True love refuses to be …
I. Envious
I
Corinthians 13:4
4
Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth
not itself, is not puffed up,
A. Explained: resentful feeling toward excellence or good fortunes of
another
B. Exemplified
Genesis
30:1
1
And when Rachel saw that she bare Jacob no children, Rachel envied her
sister; and said unto Jacob, Give me children, or else I die.
C. Enlightened - Envy is ugly. The Christian rejoices at the good and mourns
the loss of another
Proverbs
14:30
30
A sound heart is the life of the flesh: but envy the rottenness of the
bones.
Romans
13:13
13
Let us walk honestly, as in the day; not in rioting and drunkenness, not in
chambering and wantonness, not in strife and envying.
I
John 3:12
12
Not as Cain, who was of that wicked one, and slew his brother. And wherefore
slew he him? Because his own works were evil, and his brother's righteous.
II. to be Proud
I
Corinthians 13:4
4
Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth
not itself, is not puffed up,
A. Explained: to boast of self, brag
B. Exemplified
Luke 18:10
10
Two men went up into the temple to pray; the one a Pharisee, and the other a
publican.
C. Enlightened
Matthew
6:1
1
Take heed that ye do not your alms before men, to be seen of them: otherwise
ye have no reward of your Father which is in heaven.
James
4:10
10
Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up.
III. to be puffed up
I
Corinthians 13:4
4
Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth
not itself, is not puffed up,
A. Explained: inflated personal pride, over inflated self esteem
B. Exemplified- Haman
Esther
3:1-5
5
And when Haman saw that Mordecai bowed not, nor did him reverence, then was
Haman full of wrath.
C. Enlightened-the ugliness of an arrogant spirit. Such results in rude
behavior toward others
Luke
11:43
43
Woe unto you, Pharisees! for ye love the uppermost seats in the synagogues,
and greetings in the markets.
IV. to be Rude
I
Corinthians 13: 5
5
Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily
provoked, thinketh no evil;
A. Explained-Not behave itself according to the standards of good taste
B. Exemplified-Bad manners
C. Enlightened-love is mannerly – BE genuine ladies and gentlemen
Evening Worship
Love Refuses Part Two of Two
V. to be Self CENTERED
I
Corinthians 13: 5
5
Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily
provoked, thinketh no evil;
A. Explained-not pursue its own interest
B. Exemplified
Luke 12:16-21
16
And he spake a parable unto them, saying, The ground of a certain rich man
brought forth plentifully:
17
And he thought within himself, saying, What shall I do, because I have no
room where to bestow my fruits?
18
And he said, This will I do: I will pull down my barns, and build greater;
and there will I bestow all my fruits and my goods.
19
And I will say to my soul, Soul, thou hast much goods laid up for many
years; take thine ease, eat, drink, and be merry.
20
But God said unto him, Thou fool, this night thy soul shall be required of
thee: then whose shall those things be, which thou hast provided?
21
So is he that layeth up treasure for himself, and is not rich toward God.
C. Enlightened-Love looks outwards to the needs of others
Philippians 2:4
4
Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of
others.
Titus 3:10
10
A man that is an heretick after the first and second admonition reject;
II
Corinthians 9:13
13
Whiles by the experiment of this ministration they glorify God for your
professed subjection unto the gospel of Christ, and for your liberal
distribution unto them, and unto all men;
VI. To be Soon angry
I
Corinthians 13:5
5
Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily
provoked, thinketh no evil;
5
A. Explained- stirred up, sharpened pause to anger
B. Exemplified
Luke
4:28
28
And all they in the synagogue, when they heard these things, were filled
with wrath,
C. Enlightened- not have a short fuse. Do not have a chip on your shoulder
do what you can to avoid conflict
II
Peter 1:5, 6
5
And beside this, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue; and to
virtue knowledge;
6
And to knowledge temperance; and to temperance patience; and to patience
godliness;
VII. to BE A Record keeper
I
Corinthians 13:5
5
Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily
provoked, thinketh no evil;
A. Explained-not calculating up or considering evil done against you
B. Exemplified
I
Peter 2:23
23
Who, when he was reviled, reviled not again; when he suffered, he threatened
not; but committed himself to him that judgeth righteously:
C. Enlightened-Love harbors no bitterness or revenge
Romans
12:19-21
19
Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for
it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.
Deut 32:35
20
Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for
in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head.
Prov 25:21,22
21
Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.
Matthew 18
Philemon
10, 18
10
I beseech thee for my son Onesimus, whom I have begotten in my bonds:
11
Which in time past was to thee unprofitable, but now profitable to thee and
to me:
12
Whom I have sent again: thou therefore receive him, that is, mine own
bowels:
13
Whom I would have retained with me, that in thy stead he might have
ministered unto me in the bonds of the gospel:
14
But without thy mind would I do nothing; that thy benefit should not be as
it were of necessity, but willingly.
15
For perhaps he therefore departed for a season, that thou shouldest receive
him for ever;
16
Not now as a servant, but above a servant, a brother beloved, specially to
me, but how much more unto thee, both in the flesh, and in the Lord?
17
If thou count me therefore a partner, receive him as myself.
18
If he hath wronged thee, or oweth thee ought, put that on mine account;
VIII. to Rejoice in evil
I
Corinthians 13:6
6
Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;
A. Explained-rejoice in evil and its works going forward
B. Exemplified
Romans
1:18-22
18
For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and
unrighteousness of men, who hold the truth in unrighteousness;
19
Because that which may be known of God is manifest in them; for God hath
shewed it unto them.
20
For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly
seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power
and Godhead; so that they are without excuse:
21
Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither
were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish
heart was darkened.
22
Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools,
C. Enlightened
Romans 12:9
9
Let love be without dissimulation. Abhor that which is evil; cleave to that
which is good.
I
Thessalonians 5:22
22
Abstain from all appearance of evil.
Conclusion:
A. love aids the Christian in refusing to manifest sinful attitudes
B. but, do not refuse to obey the gospel or to return to your first love!